Nurse Talk 103: Bake A New Cake

Rewriting Self Care from the Inside-Out

It’s not what you think! 

In the demanding nursing field, managing stress and maintaining well-being can often seem impossible. Discover a new approach to self-care by understanding the Three Principles—Mind, Thought, and Consciousness—and their implications. These principles offer a fresh perspective on how our inner experiences come to life, reassuring that well-being is determined from the inside out. Exploring the implications of flat-earth thinking and separate realities provides insights into how perceptions limit or enhance our ability to handle stress and anxiety.

In nursing, caring for others often leaves little room for self-care. Stress and anxiety become constant companions, affecting health and well-being. But what if we could rewrite our approach to self-care with insights that transform our inner landscape, leading to a life of ease and fulfillment? Welcome to "Bake a New Cake: Rewriting Self-Care from the Inside Out," a novel approach that applies the Three Principles in daily life, offering a transformative perspective on self-care.

"Fun Fact: Nurse coaching goes beyond medical advice; it empowers patients to discover their inner wisdom and make meaningful health improvements aligned with their personal values."

The Three Principles: What The Do For Us

Mind, Thought, and Consciousness, first articulated by Sydney Banks, provide a practical and foundational understanding of how our psychological experience is created from within. Exploring these principles gives insight into the nature of thoughts and their role in shaping reality. Let's break them down:

  • Mind: Universal intelligence is behind life and is the source of all consciousness and thought.

  • Thought: Ability to create mental representations of experiences that are transient and constantly changing.

  • Consciousness: Awareness that brings thoughts to life, allowing them to be experienced as reality.

Understanding Implications: Flat Earth Thinking and Separate Realities

Two implications of the Three Principles are relevant in addressing stress: flat earth thinking and separate realities.

  • Flat Earth Thinking: Beliefs and perceptions are sometimes inaccurate, much like the once universally accepted idea that the earth was flat. Recognizing that thoughts do not always reflect reality helps us see beyond immediate stressors and anxieties.

  • Separate Realities: Each person experiences life through unique thought processes, fostering empathy and reducing interpersonal stress.

Baking a New Cake: The Analogy

Imagine baking a cake with ingredients representing aspects of life and self-care practices. Other approaches involve adding more sugar to mask stress bitterness. Our approach offers insight into the entire recipe, starting with core ingredients.

  • Ingredients of Thought: Acknowledge thoughts as the primary ingredients shaping experience. Different thoughts create different feelings. Awareness allows choosing thoughts that lead to a nourishing experience.

  • Mind as the Oven: Universal Mind is the energy source that combines everything. Trusting in this deeper intelligence allows relaxation, knowing insights will come at the right time.

  • Consciousness as the Taste: Brings the flavors of thoughts to life, experiencing the sweetness or bitterness of mental creations. Awareness of consciousness savors moments of clarity and insight.

Adding the Broccoli: Embracing Challenges

"Broccoli" symbolizes challenging personal development aspects. Confronting limiting beliefs, facing anxieties, and pushing through discomfort create a fulfilling life. Embracing challenges leads to surprising outcomes.

The Sweetness of Insight

Insights from the Three Principles provide wisdom for navigating life's challenges easily and reveal simplicity in psychological experience. Well-being depends on inner understanding, not external circumstances.

Living in the Moment

Focusing on the present releases past regrets and future anxieties. In-the-moment awareness allows for a full life experience, easing stress and finding joy in daily moments.

A New Recipe for Self-Care

Applying the Three Principles and embracing the implications of flat-earth thinking and separate realities rewrites self-care routines. Addressing stress and anxiety fosters a connection with one's true self and others.

Join Us in Advancing Nurse Coaching

If you are a nurse and want to learn this coaching approach, our program is for you. Learn to leverage the Three Principles, embrace growth opportunities, and discover wisdom for health and well-being goals.

Create a life where stress and anxiety are handled gracefully, and self-care becomes joyful and fulfilling. We look forward to meeting you. Contact Us